In the end, I think it boils down on how well you know her and her background and what she is looking for in life. It's all about expectations and people do change in life, just make sure you can handle that expectation and know your other half very well before you even start (when I said other half, I meant the girl though I don't want to appear feminist but it is the fact of life that the male is expected to provide and not the other way around), else just throw the key to someone else! Because you might end up like the game character stuck with nowhere else to go, like how life is sometimes; once we start on mortgage payments, car financing, kids etc..you'll be stuck and lament on how your life would have been and by then, it would have be too late.